Having sex and becoming aroused as an older woman is different than when I was younger. Everything takes a lot longer and there’s a gradual build up of arousal as opposed to feeling excited all the time (as I did in my younger days). Although I may not think about sex too often, it doesn’t mean I don’t want it, it’s just going to take longer to get excited. This week on our podcast we talk to Jan Day about consent and boundaries and how to get to yes, even if you start from a place of I’m not sure or maybe.